Linkage love for the well-informed lady. Enjoy!
Sweet jubilation! Another clarion call for more girl love! (Dream, Delight, Inspire)
Rabbit White challenges the definition of sex. What constituted doing it? What about when you’re flying solo? Or a lesbian? Or a gay man? (The Frisky)
I started to define sex more broadly. I think that each individual defines what sex is for them. For me, sex can be any physical, sensual intimacy that builds to a sexual release, not just penetration.The method of categorization that I started using was that if it felt like sex, then it was sex. It’s kind of like trying to define porn, you just know it when you see it.
My girlfriend asked me, “Isn’t it great that girls can do this?” as we sprawled on her bed, touching and rolling around.
I laughed.
But really I thought, “Yeah, it is great. Why can’t I have sex like this with men as well?”
Sarah Von says the world doesn’t suck. We might have bombs and dentist appointment and bad credit ratings, but we also have false eyelashes, kittens and frozen mangoes! (Yes and Yes).
When will having a vagina not constitute an individual genre of music? Is music created by women inherently laden with femininity? (Electronic Beats)
“I think this trend in the mainstream about noticing that women are making electronic music is another way of pointing out that when women make any kind of music, it’s going to be viewed differently. I feel a lot of conflicting ways because part of me is like – yes, women should be praised for battling the additional restrictions put on them by sexism when they make music, but part of me is like, get over it, we don’t use our genitals to play our synthesizers. In my experience women are often thought of as sidekicks or accessories in the music world, and electronic music is often treated as “less-than” rock, or easier than playing string instruments so being a woman with a keyboard is like one of the most easily dismissed ways of making sound. It’s another fight women didn’t ask for. I wonder if people are surprised that women make electronic music because people assume it’s more complicated than acoustic music? Like they’re impressed women have the capabilities to understand synthesis?”
The next time someone accuses you of having PMS, tell them you’re more evolved. (Jessica Mullen)
Twilight and the glorification of getting deflowered. The Mormon Message that the Twilight series sends to young girls has been
done to death and well into the afterlife, but I feel the need to post this because I find the ‘Bella as submissive nitwit’ argument really interesting. Is she weak because she gives up college, mortality, family and friends for a guy? Weren’t girls doing this way before Twilight burst on the scene and invaded the bookstores? I find the character of Bella problematic, but do we actually have evidence that her inherent flaws are damaging to a whole generation of girls? (Jane XO)
There’s a new book on the market which claims there are several instances of same-sex love in the Bible. Read this (biased) review of the book’s argument here. (Cherry Grrrl)
I could have given up a whole week’s worth of torrents to attend the Emerging Women of Comedy convention! The panel of up-and-coming funneh ladies features the women otherwise known as Garfunkel and Oates (!!!) amongst others. Read Brittani’s run down of their discussions about niche audiences, lesbian jokes and being the token female writer in the room. (Autostraddle)
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